Usually when I (Gail) say “What’s my husband done now?”  you'd be expecting to hear about his ongoing battle with spatial awareness, resulting in another bleeding bit, head bump or missing part to contend with. But sometimes what he’s done now - is gone quiet. Depression can look like nothing’s wrong: just a man sitting, or sleeping, or staring at a screen more. But as a wife, you learn the signs. The stillness. The pull-back. The moments where his spark dulls, and your heart